‘Aspiring Families’ uses holistic approach to family therapy in San Diego area

An outdoor garden at the center contributes to a comforting ambiance at Aspiring Families Center for Mental Health and Wellness, located in the Del Mar/Carmel Valley area, at 12625 High Bluff Drive, Suite 105, San Diego. (858) 531-1122.
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May is Mental Health Awareness Month, a time for recognizing the magnitude of mental health issues in present-day society. For Dr. Azmaira Maker, the founder of Aspiring Families Center for Mental Health and Wellness, the designation doesn’t quite apply, since she and her team address such issues 12 months of the year.

Maker established her practice in the Del Mar/Carmel Valley area 12 years ago to provide comprehensive, integrative and holistic mental health assessments and therapy to adults, children and especially families. Maker holds a Ph.D. in clinical psychology and is a licensed clinical psychologist with more than 20 years of experience. Her team of eight therapists and doctors offer a wide range of treatments, including equine-assisted therapy, and nutritional-and-fitness services for her clients.

Maker focuses on families because: “No one lives in isolation or in a vacuum. If I work with only the individual and not pay attention to the family dynamics or the children’s needs or parent guidance, I am likely to be missing significant information,” she said. “The goal is to move the individual within their family system to a higher and more productive level of functioning.”

When working with children, Maker goes the extra mile in learning about a child’s overall life — by reaching out to school administrators, teachers, pediatricians and psychiatrists involved with the child. It’s time consuming, but she says this team approach is worth the effort because the results are more comprehensive.

“Having a team makes it more effective and efficient, as different team members are responsible for varying pieces of the treatment,” Maker said. “Schools, pediatricians and psychiatrists are typically very responsible in returning our calls and collaborating closely with us in the best interest of the client and family. A collaborative approach is necessary and most effective, as it allows us to work with the client from multiple angles.”

Family dynamics shift in all sorts of ways, so family issues vary a great deal.

“We work with families experiencing divorce, loss, developmental, academic, behavioral and socio-emotional difficulties, as well as chronic illness, substance use and eating disorders,” Maker said. “Each family presentation and dynamic is unique and I conduct in-depth evaluations to tease apart the varying issues so that we can target treatment in focused ways.”

Dr. Azmaira Maker, a licensed clinical psychologist, is the founder of Aspiring Families Center for Mental Health and Wellness, located in the Del Mar/Carmel Valley area, at 12625 High Bluff Drive, Suite 105, San Diego. (858) 531-1122.
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Maker and her team have different approaches based on the age of the client. For teenagers and young adults, she focuses on developmental and environmental risk factors, vulnerabilities and strengths. She tries to move the teenager or young adult to higher levels of development functioning. This could be in the cognitive, social or emotional realm. She seeks to pinpoint the triggers of anxiety, depression, disordered eating, substance use, academic failure, loss of motivation or social isolation.

With adults, her approach is a little different. “There is an added complicated layer of psychological history and past events that I need to include in the therapeutic work,” Maker said. “This includes childhood, trauma, loss, career, relocations, marriages and mental health issues that could be playing a role in the client’s current needs and presentations. Hence, sometimes the work with adults is more long-term than with teens and children.”

Maker has also written two books based on what she’s identified as worthwhile subjects through her practice. They are “Family Changes: Explaining Divorce to Children” and “Where Did My Friend Go? Helping Children Cope with a Traumatic Death.”

For her books, she chose to concentrate on issues of loss because many kids experience loss and trauma through divorce and death. “It is part of life and I wanted to create positive tools to help young children cope,” Maker said. “There are many books available for older children and adults on these topics. My books focus on 3 to 6 years of age, but also have an adult component to them. The books are therapeutic in nature. The adult guide in the beginning and the focus questions at the end allow any adult (parent, teacher, grandparent, pediatrician, etc.) to utilize the books to help the young child verbalize, process, cope and heal from the grief, loss and trauma they are experiencing.”

Maker said most practices employ only one or two treatment approaches. Because she has a team of specialists in different areas of treatment, she offers a range of therapies including neuropsychological testing, cognitive-behavioral therapy, dialectical-behavioral therapy, group and play therapy, mindfulness and neurofeedback. Team members will also visit clients at home, school or the hospital if necessary.

Aspiring Families Center for Mental Health and Wellness is a private practice that does not work with insurance companies directly. However, they help clients by providing statements to submit to their PPO insurance for direct reimbursement. Their office is located in the Del Mar/Carmel Valley area at 12625 High Bluff Drive, Suite 105, San Diego. To learn more or to schedule a consultation, call (858) 531-1122 or visit

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